A beautiful bowl of summer cherries . . .
Yesterday, as I was preparing to leave the house to visit my friend Pat R. for lunch, I saw that I had missed a call on my cell phone while I was upstairs getting ready. An assistant from my gynecologic oncologist’s office had called, something that usually fills me with apprehension. But she ended her message by saying, “It’s for good news.”
Of course, I couldn’t call back fast enough, and luckily I got the same assistant in this very busy office on the first try. It was, indeed, good news: a completely normal Pap report. And I got it a whole week sooner than I expected!
As I reported in my August 13 post, I have been dismayed all summer by ongoing light vaginal discharge and a previously abnormal Pap that showed “epithelial cell abnormality” in the form of “atypical glandular cells of undetermined significance (AGUS).” A few women friends have told me they’ve had an abnormal Pap on one visit followed by a normal Pap on the next. But they hadn’t been diagnosed or treated for cancer of the uterus. Happily, though, this same thing happened to me, someone who has undergone a total hysterectomy and vaginal radiation (brachytherapy) for a potentially lethal disease.
It was such a joy to be able to tell Pat, who gleefully shared my good news with a hug, a glass of wine, and a lovely lunch and visit by her pool. This was a potent reminder that all we have is now, and we should endeavor to fully experience our moments with our full being. In my February 20 post, I included a photo of a gift Pat had given me just after I concluded my brachytherapy treatments, and I just had to include it again here. (And I did wear this yesterday.)
Wishing all my sisters out there struggling with gynecologic cancers the very best as they persevere with their treatments and wait . . . patiently . . . for test results, possibly the hardest thing cancer patients are called upon to do.
And, again, heartfelt thanks to Pat for sharing this uncommonly happy day with me yesterday and for serving me a lunch that, fittingly, ended with a lovely bowl of cherries in the already waning days of summer (I won’t mention the Klondike Bar).
Carpe diem.
[Click]: Life Is Just a Bowel of Cherries – Rudy Vallee, 1931
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Congratulations, Pam! I love that the gift that your friend Pat gave to you looks so much like Hermoine’s “Time Turner” in the Harry Potter stories, as if to say that there is no opportunity to go back and redo, only the opportunity of the here and now.
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Thanks, Jim! Great observation. Time is a subject that “infinitely” fascinates me . . . especially in the here and now.
Pam
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Pam, everything aligned for a great day. Remain so happy about your news. Many coincidences right in front of us as Elizabeth G. mentioned in her talk. Thanks.
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And quadruple thanks to you, Pat!
Happy to share cherries and EG with you!
Pam
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Hallelujah!!!! This is a bluebird day, my dear Friend!!! Yes! Yes! Yes! I love you, Kathryn
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Thank you so much, Kathryn.
Similarly to what I said to Pat, so happy to share “bluebirds” and EG with you!
Love,
P
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Yay!!! I am so very happy for you!! If anybody deserves good news, it’s you. Enjoy the rest of your day and every day from here on!!! Love you so much. Mom
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Thanks, Mom.
This is one case in which “negativity” is a good thing–all negative medical test results!
Love…
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